Friday, September 20, 2024

Nice Things . . . . . . & Definately-NoT-Nice Things

Greetings lovely friends & readers

It has been a challenging week - lets start with the NoT Nice Things.

Our property is 4 acres, rectangular with a large chunk at the end being the depot yard which is tenanted.  The rest is garden which, when I ran my Craft Cottage I used to open to Garden Clubs & Bus Groups. It's only Me that looks after it as The Mr has an entire farm to run, away from our property here.  It's been a challenging year for me health-wise, having been diagnosed with an auto-immune disease earlier this year ... everything around here now takes me 3 (or 4) times longer to accomplish.      All this to say ... I was finally beginning to feel like I was catching up with the garden & it was looking cared for again as spring bursts forth.

Then alas - our toilet blocked, water came up instead of going down.  A Plumber was called, the diagnosis - you need new septic tank fields put in! Oh Dear Me!  The next day 2 diggers & 4 men arrived.


 The large section of deck garden that was filled with assorted flowering spring bulbs, foxgloves just coming up into spikes & sweet little Strawberry Begonias was the first to be dug up.  Out & down the driveway they went . . . . . .


around the corner & across the carport, cobblestones all dug up, lucky I'd moved my car earlier.  


Way down past the pond the digging went - the new rules state it has to be 60 square metres now.  Thankfully The Mr was here when the Boss in charge said he was going to dig out my weeping Cherry Blossom Tree - it stayed!    You seriously would've thought we were installing an olympic sized swimming pool! 



I stopped snapping pics after this lot - I was hiding in the house instead.  Some piles of clay were carted away in a big truck, some got left.  It all got plonked back in again & covered up.  
Later that day when I took Sid home (5 pm) I saw the Vans leaving & thought to myself Oh I can go home, use the Loo & finally do some loads of washing.  
Guess what dear friends ... Toilet still not working !!! I think it was about now I had my first meltdown.  The Mr got on the phone & early next morning a Plumber arrived ... 20 minutes later - Gosh, sorry, toilet pipe was blocked with paper, we've cleared it now - all fixed.  
So all that was for nothing ????  Well you have a nice new septic tank system now (That we didn't need in the first place !!!)  There have been quite a few meltdowns on my part following this debacle I can assure you!



We need to level, roll & regrass but currently it has all turned to mud as we've had so much spring rain.  I had the cutest little curved brick path to my pond lined with lavenders.  Here is my path above left & I think the lavenders might be under the pile of soil above right.  It is rather heartbreaking to this VeRy tired Gardener dear friends.

In the midst of it all I drove to the Dairy & bought myself the above supplies (which I think I consumed in a couple of hours).  Eldest Son assured me it was okay because I could well have driven myself to the Liquor Store for supplies (!!) ๐Ÿ˜‰instead of the Dairy.

Little One & Blackie hid under the house for the entire day & Miss Pip took up residence in my undies drawer & I covered her up with her cuddly rug.   I think if there was room, I would've climbed in with her. 

Nice Things ...


I cried for an entire day & then I told myself to pull my socks up & get on with it!!  I went out & tried to rescue some of the flowers the men had dug out & tossed on the lawn.  I've sifted the bulbs from the soil & will replant them for next spring.  I thought if I could just clean up one corner it all wouldn't look quite so bad so that's what I concentrated on - one little corner.



As some of the decking boards had been lifted I scrubbed everything before shifting things back. I sewed a new curtain from a thrifted curtain for our old dog kennel which I use to hide things under & the top makes a good potting bench.  I scrubbed the oilcloth top & the fresh new curtain looked so pretty.

I repotted the orchid my son gave me last Mother's Day as the roots were coming out the base.  Mums red geranium got a good trim & a fluff up too.



I put a new coconut fibre inner in my thrifted chair planter & popped a punnet of white petunias in it.  I haven't used this for a couple of years so it was good to give it a freshen up.
  I've been washing the outside walls too but I think I might be a bit premature as today the pink blossom petals are blowing everywhere & sticking to all my cleaned walls.



Remember in my last post when I spoke about the wonderful cross-stitches my friend Jane had gifted me?  The one I sent to the Framers was ready so I collected it & hung it on my Sampler wall.  It is the Remember Me one ... all the others are my own handwork.  I LoVe my Sampler wall ๐Ÿ’—


My daughter in law has a very sore back & I've been trying to help out.  She mentioned both her wheatbags had holes in them so I made new covers for both & also added a tablespoon of dried lavender to each bag.  She was so grateful & said they smelt heavenly.



Thank you dear friends, for staying through this lengthy post - I hope it wasn't all too negative ... I write this as a record for myself mainly.

Wishing you all a wonderful weekend, it's cold & wet here but that's typical spring weather & in amongst the cold & the wet ... I can still see things growing & coming back to life.

With much love & friendship to you all,



41 comments:

  1. Good grief! What a stressful time you have had. I really hope that things settle down and, little by little, you can get your garden back to rights. Take care. x

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    1. Thank you so much Tracy, for leaving me your kind comment - much appreciated xx

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  2. Oh, Julie, you've had a basinful of troubles. I'm so sorry to hear about your diagnosis and hope it can be managed successfully.
    I can imagine how you felt, seeing your beautiful garden being destroyed, and all, apparently, because the plumber didn't recognise the problem in the first place. It will all repair. Nature is resourceful.
    I love your sampler wall - it's a lovely idea.
    Take care, dear Julie, and take time for yourself. ๐Ÿ˜€❤

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  3. Oh how awful. Sometimes I dream of updating our conservatory - then I think of the devastation to our garden and dream of something else. And our garden is tiny! Just so horrid for you, thank goodness the tree was saved. Sorry to hear of your diagnosis too, sending love and hugs. Beautiful sampler wall. xx

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  4. Oh dear, Julie what a hassle for you. Hope all's well now.Sorry to hear about your diagnosis. Keep calm and carry on, which I know you will! The sampler wall is beautiful.xxx

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  5. Julie, when I look at the photos of the mess that was created, I simply can’t believe it. To think of the time and love you have spent in your beautiful garden, it will take time to get it back to how it used to be. Hope not to many plants & bulbs have been damaged. Take Care Julie ๐Ÿฉท

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    1. Thank you Sandy - I couldn't believe it either. Yes it will take time but hopefully I can find the energy to fix it all up again. xx

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  6. Oh! My! Goodness! Julie...What an awful/terrible thing to happen,
    going on the above photos, it looks like major surgery...all those
    holes, all that earth...never thought a blocked toilet could cause
    so much trouble...l feel for you, l really do...Bless!
    At least the furry three all did the right thing, they hid, seems like
    you wanted to do the same...! :(.
    Hopefully, lt'll all be back to normal very soon, Julie, and your garden
    will be as lovely as ever again...!
    And Miss Pippi was certainly in the right place...HeHe! "Winter draws on".
    ๐ŸŒท๐ŸŒธ๐ŸŒท ๐ŸŒท๐ŸŒธ๐ŸŒท ๐ŸŒท๐ŸŒธ๐ŸŒท๐ŸŒท๐ŸŒธ๐ŸŒท ๐ŸŒท๐ŸŒธ๐ŸŒท ๐ŸŒท๐ŸŒธ๐ŸŒท๐ŸŒท๐ŸŒธ๐ŸŒท ๐ŸŒท๐ŸŒธ๐ŸŒท

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  7. Not negative at all. You have had a lot to contend with. If my house had needed such drastic work doing, I would have sold up and let someone else deal with it. You have done really well to stay sane. It will all come right in the end. Just a simple tip. I have had a blocked drain in the past, we are several houses joined by an underground waste pipe. I now do not put any paper down the toilet.

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    1. Thank you so much Iona ... I think you are right regarding the paper - I think this might be causing a problem. Thanks for sharing your tip Iona. xx

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  8. Well, thankfully I did not need to use your loo during my visit with you this morn! I am so sorry this mess happened for your lovely yard and your sanity. I think I get upset over "things" anymore, but this is seriously the worst mess and for no good reason. I am sure that cost a pretty penny (mostly huge dollars). And to think of redoing all the garden. I would just end up shutting the door and closing the blinds. Best of luck and wear a back brace and gardening knee pads when you get out there. Miss Pip and Blackie and Little One had the right idea to hide. Just good the two outside did not pack their kibble and leave home. And now you have had a serious diagnosis. I am sorry of it. I am not over covid and think that my new norm may be permanent. Nothing bad just some days miserable. Our drought is now so bad, the mowers drove by yesterday, took a look and drove on. Not going to make any money that way, but I have no grass to mow. Last good rain was Aug. 2nd. None in the forecast and blazing hot. You'd think I'd moved 1300 miles south to Texas. Don't over do the work. Dirt will always just sit and wait for removal and then just return when you sit to take a rest, unfortunately. Lynn and Precious XX

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  9. So sorry to hear about all that upheaval and worry for you. To look on the positive side, at least you won't need to worry about having a new septic tank in the future. While seeing your garden being dug up was horrible, it gives you an opportunity for new plants and a refresh. That could be a lovely thing to do over time, doing a little as and when you feel able to. We have a leaking water pipe under our floor, so will face an upheaval ourselves. I am looking at it as an opportunity and telling myself once it is done, the new pipe will outlive us! As always, your creative projects are lovely and give you a relaxing project to be involved with. Your sampler wall looks lovely. I hope you have all recovered from the excitement now - have a lovely weekend and make sure you and the cats all have lots of treats!
    Best wishes
    Ellie

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  10. Sweetheart, I am sending you the BIGGEST hug, and tomorrow I shall visit the chocolate store to commiserate with you - as any good friend would. ((((((xxxxxxxxxx))))))

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  11. I'm so sorry your health has been so badly affected this year, you must have faced sone big challenges. The work on the septic tank, not necessary? Maybe you can sue them! It sounds like everything pretty you had nurtured was stripped away but your positive approach shines through, I hope the garden damage is only temporary. Betty x

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  12. Oh my gosh, I think you should have gone the alcohol store route!!!! How annoying that it wasn't needed after all that! You built up some lovely corners and your sampler wall area looks lovely... the new one is a great addition.... take care, deep breaths and go get a new plant...xx
    Hugz

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  13. Oh Julie, I would have been crying with you!!! You did very well to go to the dairy and not the bottle shop!! Those plumbers were very quick to say new systems were needed, did they not check the toilet??? I am with Fiona, treat yourself to a new plant or three and do the gardening when you feel up to it and little by little. Your sampler wall looks wonderful, as do your replanted pots. Well done with the wheat bags! Thank goodness your cherry tree was saved!!!

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  14. I'm so sorry you had to go through ll of that. Plumbing problems are the worst. And the fact that you may not have even had to do it if the first plumber had done his job right. I mourn your loss of your beautiful garden parts. Toake it slow and steady and you'll have a beautigul garden again.

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    1. Thank you so much for leaving me your sweet, kind comment. Have a lovely week ahead. xx

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  15. Oh wow Julie, what a pain in the butt that would of been, glad it is all sorted now, and your garden will be as good as new in no time at all, the stuff from the dairy is much nicer that the bottle shop hehehe. The sampler wall looks gorgeous, well stay warm and out of that mud.

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  16. Oh Julie I am so sorry to read this - we had to go through a similar exercise but our was very much required, unlike your mix up that the Plumbers got wrong. Nature will take its course & your garden will be beautiful again. In the meantime, remember to take care of yourself as your health issues are important. Sarah USA xx

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    1. Thank you so much for your kind comment Sarah. xx

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  17. I cannot even imagine. We have a small suburban plot of land, and we are still working on recovery from the hurricane. To have the magnitude of a mess you have would, I think, be more than I could handle. You did very well to only indulge in a few small goodies. I think several pounds of chocolate might have been required here! I hope things are starting to look more homelike there. You are really good at creating attractive spaces, so enjoy those!

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  18. I know what you have been going through Julie, you are strong, don't crumble. Hugs dear lady. Your furry friends are constantly at your side(or in knicker drawers) Hugs.

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  19. I am so sorry that you had to go through all of that. Gardening, while a lovely pleasure, is also a lot of work and to have it torn up when it didn't have to be is heartbreaking. Cheers to you for moving on and looking forward. I love your cross stitch wall... my mom used to have one in her dining room.

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  20. Oh no!! Seeing all that destruction to your garden when it wasn't at all necessary would've been like a dagger through the heart, dear Julie. And just when springtime was beginning to arrive. I'm so sorry you've had such an awful time of it. Sorry too, to have read you have not been feeling well. Sending you a whole lot of hugs from across the ditch. Take care, lovely lady. Xx

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  21. I cannot imagine having all that done and all my yard and garden tore up plus it couldn't have been cheap just to find out it didn't need to be done. That would put a very sour taste in my mouth. I'm sorry you had to go through it.

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  22. GEEZE! These folks that put in new stuff when we don't need new stuff! What a mess! I wish I was closer to help with the clean up! Better yet -those plumbers should be paying for a clean up crew, landscape gardeners and giving you a HUGE sorry gift! At best I know its hard work having worker banging and intruding into our place of sanctuary. Take care xx

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  23. Oh dear. So sorry to hear of all your troubles, you're so good to get on with it and keep upbeat. It sounds so awful and challenging. I hope things are improving every day for you.

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  24. Oh good heavens I would have cried too! Nothing worse than a muddy mess where it was beautiful. I love your sampler wall and all your little acts of joyfulness in spite of the not so nice. Sending you a big hug xx

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  25. I would have been crying my eyes out and heading out to purchase wine, lots of wine. Lovely sampler wall. That little curtain on the old dog house is just the ticket.

    God bless.

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  26. Oh that poor torn up yard. I want to cry with you!

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    1. Thank you Kim - I have been tidying up the area closest to the house & turning a blind eye to the further away stuff!! xx. (Julie)

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  27. Oh, Julie, what a time you've had! I don't recall knowing that you had been diagnosed with an auto-immune disease. So sorry to hear that. No fun to go through the adjusting of your life to accommodate your "new normal", and then to have this (unnecessary) upheaval thrown at you, destroying your beautiful sanctuary--you showed great restraint (and wisdom) in only driving to the dairy for supplies. ;)
    Take big bites of your supplies, and continue with your small nibbles at repairing the damage done. The area you cleaned up does look beautiful. And your accomplishments with the wheat bags and samplers have got to feel good, too!
    Can't believe the people who tore up your yard and them discovered the problem was just the toilet plug didn't swallow the cost themselves. Will be keeping you in my prayers for peace and calm to help you deal with this!

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  28. Not sure how I missed this post Julie - obviously quite easily!! I think I too would have packed a few hissy fits and had meltdowns over unnecessarily losing gardens that were just springing into spring!! And probably would have eaten a bit more than two small chocolate bars!! Most essential comfort supplies!
    I had a visit to the Breastcare unit at Waikato today... thankfully it looks as though I am 'in the clear', thanks to a very reassuring radiographer, but I still need the final reports to be sent to my GP to know for sure.
    Love your sampler wall - that is beautiful - I am currently stitching again at the moment, making a needle roll on 28 ct linen, using only one strand of thread... and wearing my strong glasses - no just picking iy up and doing a couple of stitches in my 'everyday' eyewear!!
    Your 'fluffing up' of the deck and plants looks wonderful Julie - may the plants bring you joy for months as you have to reestablish your other gardens and path.
    Blessings
    Maxine

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  29. Oh dear Julie , I am so sorry ,
    Life is like a an up and down lift.
    But we have to stay strong on the bad days .
    Think of all the good things and you will get through those days.
    Your home always looks so beautiful , and you have a gift and talent to make it extra beautiful.
    Hugs June.

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  30. It’s also lovely that despite everything, you’ve found joy in helping others—like making those wheatbag covers for your daughter-in-law. I’m sure she appreciates that touch of lavender and care.

    Thank you for sharing both the struggles and the bright spots. It’s a testament to your strength and the beauty of finding grace even in the messiest of times. Wishing you much love and strength to continue finding your balance, especially in that tricky spring weather.

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    1. Thank you so much for your sweet kind comment Melody - I do so appreciate your kind words. xx (Julie)

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  31. Oh my! I'm so sorry this happened, Julie! Maybe putting in the new septic system will save you grief in the future. Isn't it funny how when we are young we have lots of energy but not enough time to do the things and when we are older (than 50-ish) we have TIME to do things but not the stores of energy we had before. Oh well! xo

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    1. Thank you so much (I am thinking this is maybe you Pam?) xx Julie

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